I am Debra L Coles, a woman chosen by God to walk in purpose—and to help others discover and walk boldly in theirs. For more than 20 years, I’ve shared life with my incredible husband and our beautiful, blended family.

My journey hasn’t been easy. It has been shaped by pain, brokenness, and seasons of deep disappointment. In my search for healing, I turned to self‑help books, not realizing they would lead me toward a greater truth: the importance of loving God, embracing self‑love, setting healthy boundaries, and honoring both my needs and the needs of others.

Everything changed in 2004. In a divine moment, I encountered Jesus in a way that transformed my life. I surrendered who I had been and stepped into who God created me to be. From that transformation came Exceptional New Me—a space where others can explore their inner world, heal, and rise into the fullness of their God‑given identity.

Butterflies have become a symbol of my journey. They represent endurance, transformation, hope, and new life. Like them, we are all capable of beautiful change—of becoming who God intended, not who life’s pain tried to shape us into.

I believe every person carries unique gifts within. My mission is to help you uncover yours, embrace your worth, and live with bold, God‑aligned intention.

Welcome to your journey of becoming. Together, let’s release who you used to be and step into who God has called you to be—your Exceptional New Me